Let’s be real.
If you’re a man, you’ve probably feared that you are gay at some point in your life.
Maybe you’re feeling that fear right now?
This fear is real, and it can be intense. Some men would rather die…
Here’s the truth:
Anal pleasure can feel amazing, and it has absolutely nothing to do with your sexual preference. It will not turn you gay.
Some gay men don’t even like anal sex…
What if I told you that I’m a straight man who enjoys anal play? You might react like this…
I get it. Most people don’t talk about this stuff…
Nobody ever told me that my ass could be a source of pleasure. Our society has programmed you and I with fucked up perspectives on pleasure in so many ways…
If you are a straight man who likes sex, the topic of anal play usually comes up at some point in your life.
Maybe that day is today?
Maybe you brought it up? Maybe your girlfriend did? Here’s some food for thought:
Common Google searches:
- “Am I gay if I want to have anal sex with a girl?”
- “If my boyfriend wants anal play, is he gay?”
- “Will anal stimulation turn me gay?”
- “If I want to have anal sex with my girlfriend, am I gay?”
At the bare minimum, being gay is an area of concern for many people… But why?
What’s wrong with being gay?
Turns out, there’s nothing wrong with being gay at all. A human’s sexual preference is a beautiful thing.
I’ve come to the conclusion that men aren’t actually afraid of being gay… they’re afraid of the societal stigma and “repercussions” of being gay.
That makes total sense…
Look at all the bullshit people have to go through if they’re attracted to someone of the same gender.
Our entire society demonizes them (and demonizes anything other than the “societal norm” of cis-gendered heterosexual relationships).
Homosexuality is more “tolerated” now than it used to be, but it’s still usually glossed over and blurred out (like the image above) by the mainstream.
For all of my gay brothers out there: I’m sorry for the shit you’ve gone through, and for all the shit you will still have to go through. I’m sorry for the ways society doesn’t see or support you.
For all of my trans brothers out there: things are even more challenging for you. I’m sorry for the shit you’ve gone through, and for all the shit you will still have to go through. I’m sorry for the ways society doesn’t see or support you.
I see you, and I support you.
The fear of receiving widespread hate, discrimination and oppression is completely, 100% understandable.
Unfortunately for many straight men, this fear this gets mixed up with authentic desire, and then authentic desire gets blamed.
So… back to the question…
Will anal play turn you gay?
Is your ass inherently geared towards same-sex pleasure?
Will touching your girlfriends anus turn you gay?
The fear is real… and it’s possible to get over that fear and experience amazing worlds of pleasure.
Have you ever had your prostate stimulated while you ejaculate? Holy fucking hot damn it feels amazing.
If you don’t experience this in your life you are seriously missing out… big time!
Anal play feels amazing, and it wont turn you or your partner gay… In fact, it will probably bring you closer together because it takes serious vulnerability and courage to explore something like this. It will probably take your sex life to the next level.
If it doesn’t, that’s okay too. It’s not everyone’s cup of tea.
My point is that you’ll never know if you don’t try it. Would you rather live from a place of fear or abundance? I invite you to push yourself past your edges and give it a shot.
I bet it’ll rock your world.
Where do you start?
You could start with your finger… but I like anal toys. Here are links to a few of my favorites:
- My Favorite Butt Plug (Vibrating & Remote-Controlled)
- Favorite Prostate Massager (Black Obsidian)
- Favorite Beginner Butt Plug (Small, Vibrating & Remote Controlled)
(I reached out to these companies to be an affiliate for them because I love their products)
You can also click here to read my Anal Toy Guide for Men (including all of the toys in the image below).
Please let me know if you have any thoughts or questions – I’d love to hear from you.
Thanks for being you, and for being here today!